Stealing Your Eyeballs? (Observations of the Week)

1. They’re Coming For Your Eyes!

THE QUESTION: What is the internet?

The Answer: Oh boy…

It is the place we go for the latest news, which is mostly terrifying, disheartening, or in the very best cases, vitriolic. In the last week alone, I’ve been: (1) swept into the Omicron craze (Omicron, my conspiracy-theorist social-media buddies have claimed, translates to the “end of time” virus); (2) informed of abuse allegations in an international non-profit I’ve supported in years past; (3) told that Pope Francis is somehow ruining the Catholic Church again (everyone is always ruining something); (4) put on notice that inflation, which was once called transitory (meaning “temporary”), might not be transitory at all.

Cheers to you, Internet, says I, raising my $25.00 bottle of acid-rain polluted tap water.

We live in the Age of the Eyeball. News organizations, social media influencers, and political parties do their best to buy our eyes, to attract our attention, and what better way to do this than by the constant churn of negativity? According to a 2019 article in the L.A. Times,

A new study involving more than 1,000 people across 17 countries spanning every continent but Antarctica concludes that, on average, people pay more attention to negative news than to positive news.

The takeaway? People in Antarctica are extremely positive folks.

The Observation: A local request.

Pause and consider this: How much of the fear mongering and outrage stoking is nothing more than hook and line? How much of it is designed to lure you in, to direct your attention, to pull you in a direction that benefits another? And how much of it distracts you from the needs in your very local life?

2. Monday Photography

Some things are still sacred.

3. A Drink With a Friend: Year-End Reflection

Five Photos Proving Beauty is Bigger Than #2020

In the waning weeks of 2020, the Great White North came to visit. In my almost-southern hometown, the magnolias and bamboo bowed low, showing deference to the weight of a year. 2020: It’s been heavy.

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Before the snow came, I sat in our local adoration chapel, a thin place in this world where the silence speaks. There, I reviewed the year—COVID-19; the George Floyd protests; the presidency that will not end. I offered a few prayers for peace and resolution, and as I did, other things came to mind. The grace of confirmation. The trout stream. The beauty of Amber’s tiny garden. The Farm. The anniversary. The exquisite food. There’s been enough grace to go around.


There is a temptation to treat 2020 as its own sort of hashtag, a meme of all things negative. This, I perceive, gives the darkness too much weight. We are not bamboo. The world is not snow. Beautiful things are bigger when given their proper place.

What good have you seen in 2020? Reflect on it. Steep yourself in it. There is more beauty than horror in this human life, if only we’ll slow down long enough to see it.